Chastity can be serious business… except when it’s not. If you think denying yourself orgasm could be fun, then you’re not alone. Lots of guys are into chastity, and there are lots of ways to have fun with it.
Let’s get the note of caution out of the way first. If you’ve got a brand new cage then there are all kinds of problems that can arise. You need a few days (or weeks) with good access to your keys so you can test it for possible issues. Base-ring too small or too big? Sleep getting messed up from night erections? Make sure you’re comfortable with your cage before you start challenging yourself with games.
SO WHERE TO START?
There are a lot of ideas to enhance the experience of self-orgasm-denial. Its like putting a chocolate on the end of the table, and telling yourself that if you manage to finish your work in 30 minutes, you will go and get the chocolate, BUT, you have to finish your work first. Easy, but not challenging, so we have some better games you can play.
HOW TO CREATE A SECURE EMERGENCY BACK-UP KEY
Before any games start, make sure you have a back-up key, for any emergency purposes. If you want to keep yourself from temptation, drop your key into a bottle of water and freeze it into ice. That way, even if you cheat in the game, you will still have to suffer 2 hours or more of waiting time for the ice to melt.
Or, you could drop a key into a big tank of used engine oil or something else that would create a big mess if you want to retrieve the emergency key. That way it becomes a hassle. The trick here is to make sure that you retrieve the key only when it is an emergency case.
LET THE GAMES BEGIN
CHASTITY FOR A BETTER BODY
Yes, you heard me right! Why not use chastity as a form of personal body trainer. Ask a friend to put the key in a gym locker with a combination. He can write the combination down and give it to the staff at the front desk. You get to pick up the combination when you’re finished your workout.
TAKE A SPIN
Here’s a great online wheel you can spin. Be careful what you wish for!
THE BOWL OF KEYS
Buy a bunch of locks with similar keys, or you may find it’s cheaper to go to a locksmith and buy a box of the key-blanks they use. Fill up a jar or a bowl and drop your key into it and give it a good shake. Now you’ve got no idea which key is yours and you can decide how often you’re allowed to take one out and try it in your lock. Perhaps you can only try one as a reward for successfully doing something you are trying to discipline yourself to do? If you’re really hoping for long-term chastity, then put the key back in the bowl if it fails.
ROLL THE DICE
Another great web app. This one lets you roll dice! Set meanings for each number and see what fate has in store for you.
ASK THE WISDOM OF THE INTERNET
If you’re a member of a Chastity forum, announce that you will add a day (or two) for every comment to your post. People on the internet are so generous!
YOU’VE GOT MAIL
Pop your key in an envelope and mail it yourself. Make sure you have a spare… mail sometimes gets lost.
MAKE IT HARD
Leave your key in one room and have some fun with self-bondage somewhere else in the house. Tape your mouth and your legs and your hands together, use all those lovely expensive toys you own. Promise yourself you won’t escape until you get your key.
Admittedly this game is not for everyone, but Dr Sears says it will take about 3 to 5 days before you see your key again.
THE KITCHEN SAFE
A little less extreme than swallowing, take a look at this lockable cookie jar, available online. There’s no over-ride, so it will force discipline, but it would be safe to give another key to a friend, just in case.
Play safe and have fun!