Can Role-Play Add to the Pleasure That Pain Brings?

What’s in your sadomasochist (S/m) repertoire? If you think of role-play as “I’m the stern headmaster and you’re the naughty student” then some people enjoy that kind of play and some people don’t find much in it. In this context we’re talking about role-play as making up fictional characters or putting ourselves as real characters…

Skipping and Dancing into the Little Mind of DDlg/b

There is one thing i don’t understand. Why are adults so boring? My aunt is standing in the corner, reading that big paper with so many words, like an army of marching across the paper. She does that every day; in the morning and the afternoon.  my cousin is even more boring. She stands beside…

Erotic Humiliation and Degradation

Technically speaking, erotic humiliation and erotic degradation are not quite the same thing, though they are often spoken about interchangably or lumped together as “humilation and degradation”. Humiliation is a mental state, and what humiliates one person may not humiliate another. For example, telling a man he has a small penis may be humiliating, if…

What Kind of Age Play little Are You?

The term “little” is like the term “BDSM”. It’s a chocolate box with a variety of flavours inside. Although age play is not necessarily BDSM as such (though it might involve discipline), it does share something in common. In anything where we take on roles, we are effectively exploring. We try things on to see…

Age Play and littles – Exploring The Inner Child

WHAT IS A LITTLE? Most littles take the role of a submissive child in age play. There are switch littles and (rare) Dominant littles, but overwhelmingly it is a sub role. I will define age play as a scene or time (or entire relationship) in which one person (usually the submissive) acts and may dress…

Peter Pan Syndrome – Real or an Aspect of Ageplay?

In the age play community, quite a number of guys refer to themselves as having Peter Pan Syndrome (PPS). It’s common to see it on FetLife profiles, and it’s often used in the way of saying “age play is not fake to me, I really have this inside me”. The name, of course, refers to…