Using Training to Keep BDSM Relationships Passionate

by Ayzad While physical practices allow fantasy to run wild, what really thrills BDSM connoisseurs is the opportunity to take advantage of the full-time regime to push the envelope of the most cerebral forms of domination. Few things can prove one’s ownership of a slave more than taking complete control over their life: when they…

Chastity for Abstinence and Chastity for Sexual Charge

A few clicks around Google or Reddit and you’ll probably notice that the idea of locking a male penis has radiated out into even vanilla circles. The intention behind, and reasons for, chastity can be rather diverse. Your reasons may not be another person’s reasons, but you are nearly certainly not alone in your own…

Sexy Chastity Games for boys and their Keyholders

Some time ago we published Chastity – Sexy Games for Solo Players, but we get a lot of enquiries from keyholders for games they can play too. So, the two of you have found the right chastity cage and you’ve got the erections and wanking under control. You might be wondering, what next? Perhaps it’s…

Illustrated Guide – Male Chastity Cages

We’ve reblogged this illustration from Boyfriend and ExBoyfriend BDSM Gallery. He’s got great taste in NSFW pics too. This is a regular series of illustrated guides. You can find the others here. You can buy chastity belts, but by far the most popular option for BDSM chastity is the cage. The intention is to make…

Download a Free Editable Sissy Maid Contract

In the U.S., BDSM history is richly steeped in leather culture and the stories of returning WWII veterans and motorcycle clubs. Parts of the community, including Sissy Maids, get overlooked in these stories, yet they have a rich, and better documented, history in Europe. We’ve had quite a number of queries for a Sissy Maid…

Edging and Orgasm Control

Erotic sexual denial is a sexual practice in which a heightened state of sexual arousal is maintained for an extended length of time without orgasm. Commonly, most of us would probably call it “orgasm control”. For some, it’s a common part of a BDSM or sexual bondage scene. It can be short term or long term….

Chastity – Does Ejaculation Reduce the Risk of Prostate Cancer?

We posted a urologist’s advice on prolonged chastity and whether or not prostate milking is necessary a while ago. A 2004 study found that the more often men ejaculated, the less likely they were to get cancer. The sample of this study (with many participants under 50 years old) made it hard to gauge the…

Illustrated Guide – Dildos

We’ve reblogged this illustration from Boyfriend and ExBoyfriend BDSM Gallery. He’s got great taste in NSFW pics too. This is a regular series of illustrated guides. You can find the others here. anal training: Inserting progressively larger objects (usually butt plugs or dildos) in order to stretch the anal sphincter, in preparation for such activities…

Holding a Cuckold Affirmation Ceremony

By cuck Steve Couples already actively enjoying a cuckold related “lifestyle” may decide to make it more formal and official amongst their friends with a Cuckold Affirmation. The event should be held as a celebration of the Wife’s sexual freedom and the husband’s submission and devotion to his Wife’s pleasure. It should not be used…

Negotiating a Chastity Contract

We’ve added a Chastity Contract to our free downloads in the sidebar, or you can download it here. It’s in Word format, so that you can edit it to your own unique needs. Many people use contracts to formalise parts (or all) of their power exchange. There’s something official and serious about putting a signature…