Erotic sexual denial is a sexual practice in which a heightened state of sexual arousal is maintained for an extended length of time without orgasm. Commonly, most of us would probably call it “orgasm control”. For some, it’s a common part of a BDSM or sexual bondage scene. It can be short term or long term….
Category: Chastity
Chastity – Does Ejaculation Reduce the Risk of Prostate Cancer?
We posted a urologist’s advice on prolonged chastity and whether or not prostate milking is necessary a while ago. A 2004 study found that the more often men ejaculated, the less likely they were to get cancer, while some things should be avoided. The sample of this study (with many participants under 50 years old)…
Illustrated Guide – Dildos
We’ve reblogged this illustration from Boyfriend and ExBoyfriend BDSM Gallery. He’s got great taste in NSFW pics too. This is a regular series of illustrated guides. You can find the others here. anal training: Inserting progressively larger objects (usually butt plugs or dildos) in order to stretch the anal sphincter, in preparation for such activities…
Holding a Cuckold Affirmation Ceremony
By cuck Steve Couples already actively enjoying a cuckold related “lifestyle” may decide to make it more formal and official amongst their friends with a Cuckold Affirmation. The event should be held as a celebration of the Wife’s sexual freedom and the husband’s submission and devotion to his Wife’s pleasure. It should not be used…
Negotiating a Chastity Contract
We’ve added a Chastity Contract to our free downloads in the sidebar, or you can download it here. It’s in Word format, so that you can edit it to your own unique needs. Many people use contracts to formalise parts (or all) of their power exchange. There’s something official and serious about putting a signature…
Chastity – Dealing with Intense Emotions and Difficult Communication
Most guys who take chastity beyond a couple of hours, or a couple of days, are no longer doing it just for fun. It becomes a tool for devotion, power exchange and emotional connectivity. It is about letting go of your ego and letting someone you submit to take charge of your body. Like a…
The Secret Transgression of an Undercover Lover
Everyday life can get a bit mundane and humdrum. Stuff that used to give us challenge or put a spark in our day gets repeated over and over again, and becomes less interesting. It happens in relationships too. One technique to give you a tingle throughout the day is to add a secret. A layer…
Affordable Chastity Devices from China – Things You Need to Know
China has emerging industries for pretty much everything nowadays, and that includes BDSM toys and chastity devices. i have some personal experience with Chinese chastity cages (my current go-to steel cage comes from China). If you’ve never shopped on a Chinese website before, i wanted to share some experiences and handy hints. i’m basing this…
Medical Advice on Prolonged Chastity
PROSTATE MASSAGE – TO MILK OR NOT TO MILK? Chastity for an hour, a day or even a week isn’t going to harm anyone, but what about months at a time or longer? Whether or not prostate milking is necessary is a much-discussed topic on the internet, and some fairly shady websites and product sellers…
Chastity – Sexy Games for Solo Players
Chastity can be serious business… except when it’s not. If you think denying yourself orgasm could be fun, then you’re not alone. Lots of guys are into chastity, and there are lots of ways to have fun with it. Let’s get the note of caution out of the way first. If you’ve got a brand…