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Why Has Sex Addiction Become Such a Problem?
Male Chastity Games & Challenges
Why Control is Not Always What It Seems
Discipline – The D in BDSM We Don’t Talk About
Does a D/s Relationship Make Our Love Stories Twice as Difficult?
Pushing a Boulder Up a Hill
Illustrated Guide – 3D Model of Erotic (Kink) Space Pt3
Illustrated Guide – 3D Model of Erotic (Kink) Space Pt2
Illustrated Guide – 3D Model of Erotic (Kink) Space Pt1
Reimagining Our Relationships in a Time of Crisis

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BDSM Body Measurement Chart
Owner’s Manual
BDSM Play Partner Checklist
The “Tonight I Want…!” Negotiation Sheet
The “Not a Checklist” Negotiation Sheet
Slave Training Questionnaire
Submissive Worksheet – Needs & Wants
Interviewing Prospective New Partners
Rope Negotiation Checklist
Age Play Negotiation Form

Free Downloads – Training & Play

Impact/Whip/Flog Safe Zones
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Self Bondage Rope Harness
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Self Bondage Rope Handcuffs with Lock
Self Bondage Japanese Fundoshi
12 slave Positions
Advice for Rope Tops & Bottoms
Reinforcement versus Punishment
boy’s Creed
Master’s Creed

Free Downloads – Contracts

slave Application Form
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Voluntary Servitude Contract
Dog Training Agreement
Chastity Contract
Sissy Maid Contract
Cuckold Affirmation Ceremony
128 Basic slave Rules
25 Key slave Rules