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Impact Play that Unleashes the Dragon Within
YKINMKBYKIOK – Your Kink is Not My Kink, But Your Kink is OK
Abducted Scholar Zhang Ying Ying’s Case Brings Out Fetlife and BDSM Shaming in Media
Not Top nor Bottom? Non-binary Sexuality is More Than Just Switching
Advice for Rope (and other play)
Illustrated Guide – Types of Spankings
Is it Sadomasochism, Abuse or Self Harm?
Are Kinks Getting More Extreme?
Looking Deeper into Why BDSM May Benefit Our Mental Health
Illustrated Guide – Enemas: How To Clean Your Ass!

Free Downloads – Questionnaires & Checklists

BDSM Body Measurement Chart
Owner’s Manual
BDSM Play Partner Checklist
The “Tonight I Want…!” Negotiation Sheet
The “Not a Checklist” Negotiation Sheet
Slave Training Questionnaire
Submissive Worksheet – Needs & Wants
Interviewing Prospective New Partners
Rope Negotiation Checklist
Age Play Negotiation Form

Free Downloads – Training & Play

Impact/Whip/Flog Safe Zones
Spanking Target Zones
Self Bondage Rope Harness
Self Bondage Wrist Restraint for Harness
Self Bondage Rope Harness Hog Tie
Self Bondage Basic Hog Tie
Self Bondage Rope Handcuffs with Lock
Self Bondage Japanese Fundoshi
12 slave Positions
Advice for Rope Tops & Bottoms
Reinforcement versus Punishment
boy’s Creed
Master’s Creed

Free Downloads – Contracts

slave Application Form
Consensual Slavery Contract
Voluntary Servitude Contract
Dog Training Agreement
Chastity Contract
Sissy Maid Contract
Cuckold Affirmation Ceremony
128 Basic slave Rules
25 Key slave Rules

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