In the getting-to-know you stages, a fetish checklist can be a great tool to communicate with a partner. It can also spark some interesting (and perhaps productive) conversation even if a relationship is not new.

Kinkomatic is an online tool that leaves you with a nice visual representation of your ratings and a unique URL you can share privately or on your Fetlife profile.

Here’s an example:

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