Self Bondage – Fundoshi

The traditional Japanese fundoshi might not be commonly associated with self bondage, but we thought it fitted nicely with our series so we’ve uploaded a new PDF with step-by-step instructions in our free downloads area (or you can download it here). There are several types of fundoshi, including kuroneko, mokko and etchū. Ours is rokushaku-style,…

Self Bondage – Rope Harness Hog Tie

This is a more secure hog tie than the one we uploaded previously, and it works like a charm, but it does require a rope harness to secure it to. More things can go wrong with a hog tie than some other forms of self bondage, so please do read our safety tips before you…

Self Bondage – Rope Handcuffs with Lock

In a previous self-bondage how-to, we showed a quick rope handbind for attaching to a harness. It was very simple and not very secure. We’ve got a new PDF in our free downloads with step-by-step instructions for more secure cuffs. So secure, in fact, that you won’t get out of them without a key. You…

Self Bondage – Rope Hog Tie

We’ve created a PDF with step-by-step instructions for two different variations of a self bondage rope hog tie. It’s in our downloads in the sidebar, or download it here. Hog ties are more risky than our previous step-by-step rope harness tutorial, so please read Some Words Before You Start. It’s important. Believe me, you don’t…

Self Bondage – Quick Rope Hand Bind for Harness

We’ve created a PDF with a quick finishing touch to our self bondage Full Body Rope Harness to lock your wrists in place behind your back. It’s in our downloads in the sidebar, or download the step-by-step instructions here. You’ll need one rope, about 2 meters (6.5′) long. You’ll be able to get in and…

Self Bondage – Full Body Rope Harness

We’ve created a PDF with step-by-step instructions for a full body rope harness. It’s in our downloads in the sidebar, or download it here. You’ll need one rope, 8 or 9 meters (26′ to 30′) long. 6mm rope looks good on most people, but if you’re a bigger build, you might like the way 8mm…

Self Bondage – Some Words Before You Start

We’re going to run a series of articles on self bondage in the coming weeks, and before we do, I thought it would be wise to say a few words about risk and safety. I know, it’s not the sexiest of subjects, but please read on. This stuff is important, and even if you think…

Anatomy for Rope Bondage Safety

In BDSM there is a certain amount of mystique about the things we do. For every activity, from whips to humiliation play, there are  specialist communities and infinite levels of complexity. Of course there is a lot to learn about anything, but I think it can be a bit off-putting for people just starting out…

How Japanese Rope Bondage Culture Developed Outside of Western BDSM

Santa left a Taiwanese rope bondage book by 小林绳雾 under the Christmas tree for Master. Amongst the step-by-step illustrations, the author spends some time to understand the subtle difference between Western BDSM culture and Asia’s SM Culture. The book is in Chinese, but it’s a very interesting look at that topic, so I thought it…

The Origins of Shibari Japanese Rope Bondage – For Pain and Pleasure

By Morgan IS IT HOJOJUTSU, SHIBARI OR KINBAKU? The most widely used term for Japanese rope bondage now is “shibari”, which is actually a (correct) alternative pronounciation of the Japanese written characters for Hojojutsu. The same Japanese character can be read in different ways, and Shibari and Hojojutsu (捕縄術) both look the same when written….