by Tornus I’m a big fan of the fantastic one page negotiation checklist created by @amothtotheflame. It’s succinct, well-organized, and does a great job of summarizing what you actually need to know during casual pick-up play. I’ve found, though, that this sheet doesn’t really meet my needs when I’m negotiating with a new partner, especially…
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The “Tonight I Want…!” Negotiation Sheet
Using the “Tonight, I want…!” Negotiation Sheet is simple: Give one copy to each person in the scene and ask them to fill it out. Ask questions! When you say you want spanking, does that have to be limited to your butt, or can I smack your chest too? Discuss the terms, and maybe write…
The Periodic Table of Kink
Sorry kink explorers, but fluffy handcuffs are considered vanilla. If you have a thing for tentacles, figging, snowballing, rusty trombone, cupping or queening then you’re definitely considered kinky though, and this great periodic table will show you some associated kinks. My favourite bit is the common paraphilias section in white, but it’s all interesting and…